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Being the gossip freak that Iam I couldn’t just let
the Vavi story or rather Scandal go without giving it my two cents worth comment.
I think it’s really sad how these prominent people are abused by the media.
Being a media student I understand what goes into making a story a good one, I
mean the point of selling papers is to make profit, even though you bend the
truth a little and pray you won’t get sued. People need to understand that the
media set an agenda when they publish a story they usually want to steer our minds
in a certain direction.
The Cosatu hearing has not even concluded but already
we are judging the man . I can understand because the media’s function is to be the watch dogs of society but at times they jump to conclusions, a few weeks back remember reading that Mr Vavi was being threatened and his family advised him to quit his job for his own safety and then BAM the next thing he is accused of rape, how far will they go to get rid of the man.Dont these girls know that accusing a prominent man of rape won’t get you anywhere? You just make the rest of us decent girls look bad. The media tries manage expectations and to also be the gatekeepers of society and since we all gullible we just fall for it, let’s Take it easy on him guys. Click here to see sms's between Vavi and the "rape victim" http://www.peherald.com/news/article/17456
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ReplyDeleteI like what u said gossip freak lol,about how him having an affair affect his leadership skills in any way,i mean really? it really has nothing to do with that
ReplyDeleteIts a mistake that will ruine his reputation. People will judge you whether you do good or bad... very interesting
ReplyDeleteThats why these high profile men should behave, was the affair worth it in the end ? NO
ReplyDeleteLol yeah the girl thought he will take her places , would love to see her picture.
ReplyDeleteOr maybe the girl didn't get what she wanted from the affair so she decided to shout rape #justsaying. Will never get to the bottom of this, only the two know what went down between them.
ReplyDeleteThere is a code of conduct that says that employees should not sleep together. So they both knew that they were acting against the code of conduct.
ReplyDeleteI think what happened with Vavi is that he thought he was above the law.
DeleteI think am going to be a bit hash towards you madam. Regardless of whether he is guilty or not, the man is married for crying out loud. could'nt he atleast think of his marriege before having an affair?http://johannesmankayi.blogspot.com/2013/08/rape-or-foul-play.html
ReplyDeleteIam no judge here , but simply someone who is saying that we should give him a break and look at things from a broad perspective.How is what he did a reflection of all his skills and capabilities?
DeleteFirstly Vavi was suppose to follow the right protocol regarding recruiting the lady, Secondly now that he knew people were out for him he should have tried to do things right and yes he is not perfect and thirdly he must be happy that he still have people behind him.
ReplyDeleteReally agree with you on that one following the right protocol would have made him look less guilty in all of this.He has done a lot for those who cant stand up for themelves and i like him for that.
DeleteLooking at our "leaders" they do not lead by example unless if what they do is called good leadership!
ReplyDeletesometimes we women present ourselves as cheap before man why on earth lie about being raped wereas you agreed to sleep with the man.i just wonder what happend to our pride and dignity
ReplyDeleteWe cant trust any one these days .Even our own leaders thats we look op to have become rapist now .just hearing vavi name make me sick
ReplyDeleteThis leaders are not setting an example to the publics
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